Along the same lines of this post....I had my girlfriend out on the boat last week for the first time, and she took to it like a champ....Out on the wire, hoisting, flying, and dousing the spin. Everthing. But she was extremely uncomfortable in the harness (and aquata half harness). I was thinking she may be more comfortable in one of the old stlye harnesses without the spreader bars. Any female sailors out there care to chime in on what they feel is most comfortable for them?