saturday i sailed on my boat, but sunday i was asked to race in the frostbite series on a j-24. how do you deal with a crew member that wants to do everything? instead of asking for something done on the foredeck, he'll leave his trimming position and do it him self. see-, i hooked up the jib cunningham over the spin sheets, which is wrong, he saw it, didnt bother to tell me and runs up front and does it himself. this is right after the "one person does one job" speech. i dont know what to say to him.