Thanks for all your replies.
I did what was suggested, and everything is now perfect. The helm "feel" is much much more managable and a hell of a lot more comfortable.
I was even able to rake my mask further aft as I went out for a quick test, came back in and adjusted, went back out and things were all cool - Though I am still unsure of the advantages/disadvantages of the raked mast, I guess I will find out, it didnt seem to make much noticable difference, I guess I was just stoked on the easier steering.
Tacking was a little sketchy as I was out by myself, but I took the opportunity to get in and out of Irons and fully sort that out.
Am a little bit paranoid about capsizing alone as I dont know how hard it will be to solo-right. I'll take my mate out again and capsize on purpose and try solo-righting. I think he's a bit chicken after the pitchpole incident though.
Cheers again.