what should i use that's better than silicone sealant ?
Bille
What's wrong with using a standard marine silicone? This is what's used on most boats and works just fine.
I would definitely not recommend using 3M 5200. If you ever need to take the boat apart in the future, you're going to really regret using that stuff - it is a permanent adhesive and you'll likely end up damaging/destroying the hulls, beams, or both trying to get them apart.
Use marine silicone and if your hulls leak, then you probably have a crack somewhere or another leak source unrelated to the crossbar bolts.
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