The problem is your a bigger guy, and that pretty much excludes the real small/light boats (14's & small 16's)

you might be able to solo a hobie or prindle 16 but having crew could be a bit much, and more challenging in light air....

having such a shallow bottom excludes daggers and even most centerboards so that makes this even smaller group for the "perfect boat".

I would add a dart 18 to the list above, but that is a high wind boat and doesn't love weight nor light air