If anyone pushes the boat so hard that the foredeck goes under, they deserve to pitch!

In terms of pitchpoling (my personal PET PEEVE!), me and my long-time skipper NEVER pitched ourselves, only when it was another skipper! I mean, whatcha gonna do when it's blowing 30, your skipper CLEATS in the main, you and another crew are out on the wire, and your skipper falls off the wing??? You have only a second to try to get off the wing and try to uncleat the mainsheet. Actually, you have no time, because our H18sx pitched so hard that we came out black & blue from falling into the rigging.
The 2 of us are older now (total crew weight ca. 290-300), so we don't push it at all anymore and still have fun sailing our 4 boats (H16, H18sx, Nacra 5.8na). We like them all because they are so different.
I still say go with the Nacra 5.2.