you tell him, jake
I only recently got into cat sailing- I was previously into cruising monohulls then crewing on a monohull. This forum has been a great resource for ideas, suggestions, and inspiration. Although some of the threads occassionally get into "my boat is better than yours" or "the next best boat is..." I think that the range of boats discussed gives all a fair shake.
Some of the talk is occassionally intimidating but overall I think this is a fairly friendly place... I can't tell you how much Jake, for one, has helped me out with advice.
So... how about a group hug