Durable: very - no failures (other than self inflicted failures such as backing into something or bolts coming loose).
Long do they last? At least 4 years (that's all the time I have on them.
Special Hardware? No - nuts and bolts - use nylocks and don't overtighten.
Carpet lasts a good while. I don't know how they attach it but I suspect they may do it in the mold.
Lubricant on the carpet - yes, occasionally.