Keep in mind the tramp is part of what makes the boat stiff.
Yeah, What Flash said. It's all about the tramp. I've seen worse than 6" for sure. Get your tramp back and crank down on it, should make it way better. Use a good quality low stretch line. If saving every ounce is not that important, just use a 1/4" pre-stretched Dacron, it works fine and is easier on the hands while stringing up the tramp. If it's still bad, I've seen people shim the x-bars using various methods. BTW the bow spreader is for the 'turbo'. By adding the jib, the forces want to pinch in the bows.
Hope that helps!