I fully understand ROW rules when sailing (in terms of port/starboard/windward/leeward). Now, I don't always apply them correctly and will be the first to admit fault. My point is that I try very hard to keep a proper look out but when you are going close to 20 kn downwind and there is a mixed fleet, I appreciate people yelling at me even if I already know you are there. whats wrong with that?
BTW, what is with the statement regarding "slow down and pick your way through the fleet?"