As an unbiased observer....
I think he was trying to say men muscle it too much, and should try to be more like women sometimes, and "feel" the boat more. Which is something good about women.
(I think its a good point and that you should award the point).
Of course, it is a good point. But the point is that he was making that point in order to score points with me, and he gets no points for his point because of the way in which he prefaced his point by saying he was sorry to have to say it. Since I am his wife, it is my hard-earned right to deny him points whenever I wish.

And considering how beat up I got doing on-water drills all week in his catamaran seminar, it's going to take him a long time to get ahead on points. However, I DID improve my sensitive, zen-like feel for the boat -- I think it has something to do with bleeding knees and aching muscles.