Wouter, I think we are agreeing with each other, Flappy spi in the big stuff when gybing just assists in the boat luffing up too quickly.

I always treat the kite as the top priority too, get it sheeted (even over sheeted if windy, us single handers do run out of hands compared to the 2 up boats) on the new gybe and then sort out everything else and get back out on the wire.