Gree
Not to throw a wet blanket on things, But
Back in the day, I bought a girlfriend everything needed over a couple of years to sail. We broke up and all gear gone.
Next girlfriend: Bought everything again, after a year or so, broke up. All gear gone.
Then I decided to buy all the gear and when sailing with any new girl let her know it's yours and she can use it when sailing.
It worked, I married that one and she gave me my current super crew.
The wife now crews around and we are both much happier at the end of the day.
Buy the jewelry as a present.