Hi Michael,
You'll get some advice in here from more experienced Mozzie sailors than me but hopefully I can cheer you up.
I am the same weight as you and I'm only in my second full season on a Mozzie after not sailing for over 15 years and that was on mono- marans.
My boat is timber, built to minimum weight, but as it is now 13 years old and had a repair or 2 it would be somewhat heavier. With regards to reducing weight I have removed all Mk11 gear and anything that was redundant. (old boats seem to have lots of stuff on them) I have replaced my timber dagger boards with the current glass/composite ones from JK fiberglass. Smaller, lighter and stronger, and am intending to do the same with the rudders soon. Whilst I consider lightening the boat where possible to be a good thing I'm sure these efforts have had little effect on my results compared to time spent on the water and the helpful advice from fellow sailors.
I don't get to sail every weekend due to family arrangements but treat every defeat as a lesson, and just enjoy the fact that I'm out on the water. I sail against a bunch of Paper Tigers and during my first season, I was regularly beaten over the line by ALL of them which was pretty embarrassing on Yardstick. These days I can often beat most of them over the line and occasionally all but the very quickest of them on Yardstick. (the quick ones are very good sailors on very good boats I have to say in my defence
).I sometimes go over to Somers where there are lots of Mozzies and in the early days was the last Mozzie in by more than a leg. Lately I'm not so far behind and I think on my last visit I was not the last one home
As for weighing.... bathroom scales, wide plank, balance the boat on the plank with the scales under it. I saw that method on here somewhere. Makes sense. I have never bothered as I'm yet to be a good enough sailor that 10kg of boat weight would make the slightest bit of difference.
Re the water... at a kg for each litre., stopping the water getting in would be a good thing!
Hope there's something in all that to help.
Enjoy your sailing!
Cheers