Can you move the sheeting point back a touch? Barberhauler out just slightly? I'm not exactly the worlds leading expert, buit that is what I'd try first...
no barber haulin' upwind...
Agree with moving forward on your jibleads.. or different hole on your clewplate.
also.. 4 rows? typically you have 2 tale's per side... it doesn't hurt to have more.. but you may not be able to get all to "play nice" if you can't control your jib leads/ jib is stretched.. etc