Arjan, have a look again to my vid with a beachstart:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kMKThlRmCGE&list=ULfbpc_evUIHESkip to about 3 minutes in the video.
In the footage you can see that there was a northern wind from the right and I also had to start even close to a breakwater on the right hand. You can see the cat wants to go all the time to the right, luffing up.
Which is your problem too.
So, jib tight, main open (but not completly because otherwise I don't have driving sailpower anymore).
Rudders are hanging loose, which means they are floating horizontaly behind the transom.
Now I have to pull hard on the stick in order to course straight to the waves. The trick is to open your main so far that you can just manage this weather helm (which can be enormous) and still have enough forward speed.
It means your rudder system must be able to withstand these powers too!
In the vid you see that after passing the break I can pull the rudderblades down with a rope just behind the mast.
So, all the time I'm near the front luff-stay, holding my balance with my free hand.
Passing a break like this, is daily stuff for me; because of the breakwaters with 100 m. distance between them I have no space for starting on a broader reach and making speed. Sometimes with the wind cross on-shore I even have to start like this on a close-reach or closehauled.
Very nerve breaking when you see the breakwater coming nearer when you are pushed back by some breaking waves.
The trick is to keep your speed and steer the cat into the wind when climbing a wave and steering away as soon as you have reached the wavetop.
By the way, beach starting with a cross-offshore wind or even a full offshore wind (and waves), is even harder because even with a fully open main the weather helm is enormous.
It all needs exercise!