Hey there, I'm in Raleigh, and I've sailed my h17 out at jordan before. Problem isn't so much the lack of wind these days, but rather, the lack of water!
At any rate, I think the best place to put in in Eastern NC is Beaufort. The creek is usually protected from the heavy winds, but theres just enough left over so you can get out to the inlet and past shackleford into the ocean. You might be able to find a couple of us out there in 17's and 18's on any given weekend.
Wrightsville Beach also has a public ramp on the "harbor" side of the island...