When Bonnie and I were meeting with the priest in preparation for our wedding last year, he inquired as to what kind of a church goer I would be. When I replied with an indirect 'safe' answer, he shot more directly and said something to the effect of (as if it were perfectly acceptable), "so you'll pretty much be a major holiday guy - Christmas and Easter?". I replied "well, yeah mostly...but I have a big regatta every Easter".