Obviously forum members can't be made to use their real names but it sure as hell makes things confusing if they change their gender....???!

Mind you, I have to agree with the comments already made. It does not reflect at all well on any individual who compounds inflammatory posts with a hidden agenda while using an alter-ego, opposite gender, forum name.

If you're not prepared to stand by your comments/accusations under your real name then why should anyone take you seriously?