Hi,
I'm a stranger trying to buy parts for my catamaran, It's hard to find this stuff used here in my country, Chile. I've contacted two possible sellers, but it seems that they've got scared after knowing I'm not north american. I think that shipping only after getting the cash (real cash, not a deposit) is safe enough for the seller, isn't it? In one case I included my phone number and offered to call the seller, supposing that this could add a bit of confidece, maybe asking for information is a source of suspicion?
I understand the concerns, and would appreciate any help to be able to access to these opportunities, after all, my act of confidence is much bigger if I'm willing to send money before getting anything.