Hi Eric,
The forestay length of the Hobie 16 depends on what kind of jib halyard system they had. If they have a wire jib halyard (old stock system), then the forestay is 17'6". It can be either 1/8" 7x19 or 1x19 wire.
If they have the Aussie system (with a synthetic halyard), then the forestay is 18' 9 3/4" of 1/8" 7x19 wire.
You shouldn't use a synthetic replacement, since this wire holds the mast up when the sails are off and the rig is loose. Chafe would be a problem.
The mast head fitting can be replaced and re-riveted with new holes - no need to repair the blown out holes unless there is damage running down the mast.
As for the mast extrusion, if it's not too badly bent, you can try to straighten it (use a couple of closely spaced, good-sized trees). Dents are more problematic. Pictures would help with the diagnosis.
There's a "looking to buy" section in the Hobie Community Forums (
http://www.hobiecat.com/forums/viewforum.php?f=10) that gets a surprising amount of action. You'll need to register for the forum before you can post.
Of course, you can hit all the other sources - Craigslist, TheBeachcats.com, etc. Hobie 16 parts are pretty easy to find, even masts.