I sailed/raced a Hobie 18 with wings for 20+ years in all conditions and found the concerns about wings hitting waves to be overstated.

There aren't that many designs with factory wings to choose from that are also light enough for the solo sailor, obviously there is the Hobie 17, which is designed to be solo but it has pretty heavy mast and I've never liked the way the wings socket into the hulls.

The Hobie FX-One is light and more modern but probably hard to find.

People have modified the Hobie SX18 wings to fit on many other boats, those wings connect to the beams and hinge up for trailering. They are pretty big and heavy though since they are quite long and designed for two-up.

The wings/benches for the Hobie Getaway can also be used on other designs, I know someone who installed a pair on a Prindle 18 and it worked very well.