Other than the human suffering of course, the thing that was hardest for me was the callous attitude of the men I flew with. They thought I was foolish to dirty my hands caring for 'those people' who did not leave when they should have. I was furious with them. I felt ridiculed. I would have much rather traveled with other nurses.
So much for the dating that guy.
Some people have no clue. You stepped up and helped those that couldn't help themselves.
As for the guy you were dating, you were lucky to find out what he was really like early on.
