I know this sounds stupid but .. im really shy about walking up to a person and asking if i could trying riding with them on thier catamaran. I would really love to try righting an FXone to see if i can do that on my own (it would really help with my decision). The thing is we have a house in Boston and we go there practically every summer. Ive seen some ppl sailing cats there and i got really close to asking them if i could come along .. but i chickened out and i really regreted it.