As for the sailor not coming back.... how is that a good thing?
Not trying to answer for Catman but in my mind ...
quality vs quantity
I would rather sail (and socialize with a small group of honorable people vs a large crowd of jerks / liars / thieves
Point taken... but you can lie with dogs and not get fleas...
In some cases it may be just a misunderstanding or not knowing the rules. Calling them on it and chasing them away seems a bit harsh when many of us are trying to re-build fleets and generate new sailors..
I have known some cheaters over the years... they're going to do it regardless... funny no matter how much they did it, they never won..
