Clearly, you don't get it.

Read the rules again. This isn't NASCAR.

Colorful metaphors aside, if you're in the position of ducking the whole fleet coming across on starboard, it's because they followed the rules, planned and sailed better than you to get there.

A 50/50 chance to cross the lead starboard boat in a pack of 10 means you're in 11th place.

It's not about being nice, it's about following the rules.

Mike