Hi Darren
I wouldn't change clubs, stir them up if not they get away with being bully boys.
What makes them sailing around a pond any better than you??
It must be a monohull thing
Just my thoughts
Unfortunately, no, this is not just a monohull thing! Cat sailors are also quite susceptible to the "holier than thou" mindset.
I've had pro/coached teams use intimidation tactics against me during major Tornado events...including being screamed at to read the rules on port/starboard crossings (me on starboard); being told not to park under a boat on a starting line etc etc.
And it's not just these elite teams...had a less than pleasant experience at a recent local event sailing as the odd boat out in a fleet of F18s.